Unity Candle Ceremony For Weddings

Fri, 22 Jan 2010 14:17:43 +0000

Candles have become a popular part of modern wedding ceremonies, with the most popular being the Unity Candle rite. The Unity ceremony cannot be traced back to ancient traditions and is not a part of any religious tradition that can be pinpointed.

Its use in wedding ceremonies is approximately 30-50 years old, depending on who you talk to and is apparently most popular in the United States. While the ceremony, itself, is simple, its use can be a particularly beautiful way to draw the families and friends closer to the bride and groom.

The Unity Candle ceremony uses three decorated candles, two tapers and a large pillar in the center of the tapers. The color is usually white, but some brides have ordered candles that complement their wedding colors. Others have decorated the Unity Candle, the large pillar, with a copy of the wedding invitation or a picture of the couple. Flowers or strands of white pearls have also been used to create personal candles for the ceremony.

Since there’s no proof of historical ceremonial traditions for a Unity Candle rite, the actual wedding ceremony can be anything the couple wants it to be.
Usually, at the start of the wedding ceremony, the mothers of the bride and groom light the two taper candles. After the couple completes their vows, they light the Unity Candle together with the two tapers. The Unity Candle is usually saved and relit on anniversary celebrations.

The symbolism behind that simple ceremony represents the permanent merging of the bride and groom into one family. If the couple blows out the two tapers after lighting the Unity Candle, it symbolizes leaving their families and starting a new family together. If they don’t blow out the tapers, it has been said to symbolize continuing love for the couple from each family.

One beautiful variation of the simple candle ceremony involves all the guests and is a beautiful representation of the love and support that friends and family feel for the couple, their unity. A candle is given to each guest as they are seated. At the start of the ceremony, the first guest’s candle is lit and the flame is passed on to each guest in turn until all candles are lit. When the last guest’s candle is lit, the bride and groom light their Unity Candle.

This ritual is particularly beautiful because it makes every guest an actual part of the ceremony and not just observers. The backdrop of flickering candles while the couple recite their vows is truly something that will be remembered by everyone in the chapel that day. Candles draw people together and this Unity Candle Service is designed to do just that.

One thing to keep in mind, however, is that some churches do not allow this
ceremony to be part of their service. Be sure to check with the church or
chapel before you book it for your wedding.

Many brides decorate their own Unity Candles and others purchase them from stores or candle makers. Some have elaborate setups, including a candelabra that elevates the pillar, symbolizing the strength of the new union. The candles can be simple or highly decorated or molded into meaningful shapes, depending on your tastes.

Adding the Unity Candle to a wedding ceremony is a special way to bring the families and friends of the bride and groom closer together on this special day.

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Don’t Neglect These 3 Wedding Tips

fts — Fri, 20 Nov 2009 02:46:05 +0000

Wedding days are certainly a very specially day for both the bride and groom. Lots of time and effort go into making this celebration of love run smoothly and insure everyone has a great time. It is all too easy however to get yourself in a muddle over the whole event and end up overlook some very important aspects. Here are 3 very important things to bear in mind at every stage of the planning process.

Plan early. This might sound a little obvious, but you would be surprised just how many people leave things until the last minute and then panic when something goes wrong. You should ideally plan for every possible problem you can, and do it early on, asking lots of people to double check stuff for you, just so you don’t overlook something important.

Budget carefully. It is so very easy to get carried away with the wedding planning and blow vast amounts of cash. You need to step back and take stock of the fact that money and luxury is not what it is all about, as long you are surrounded by the right people. If you have the money then by all means you can book the most amazing wedding castles to get married, but don’t blow money that you will spend years paying back.

Involve the family. Although weddings are largely about two people showing their love and commitment for one another, they are also important events for friends and family. It is easy to forget about them in the planning stages, but if you involve them and even ask for their help when you need it, they will really appreciate it and will feel more involved in the whole occasion. You could ask them to book the wedding hotel for you, or just organize the flowers. It really doesn’t matter what it is, as long as the people important to you feel connected to the big day

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Unity Candle Ceremony For Weddings

Don’t Neglect These 3 Wedding Tips